She likes
me. She likes me not. She…. On i go childishly excited like a kid who just got
his/her first bike about a certain girl I’m interested in. Oddly, i chose to
delay myself the pleasure of an introduction and took my time to digest her countenance.
A few days later, she finally confessed on a second date that she liked me and
would be willing to hold hands with me in public. Hold up. "Hold hands in
public" I like the sound of that. Although its not the first time a girl
has asked me out, but with those exact words that was the first and as a very
bad sharp guy i easily could read between the lines. So you go figure.
As much as i hate
to blow my trumpet (my own trumpet o) i must say i am that cool. Cant stop
wondering why xoxo can't see that or on the other hand i should just probably
get her a pair of glasses which right about now might serve my purpose more
than edibles. Just a thought.
Anyways when a
girl likes a guy and tells him, then she's being a guy by acting on an impulse
which could be seen as a reflex action that might ruin her personality maybe by
presenting her as cheap or as its often called in my circle- ‘that farm
instrument’. Furthermore, she can become a very likely candidate for ridicule
in a round table conversation over a couple of sips and puffs. Not that it
matters if the table is not round, its a guy thing not gossip. Let me spell it
out for you; girls gossip while we guys simply update.
Truthfully i emphasize
the 'might cause her P damages' because its only a possibility and my
assumptions can be all they are actually worth; just assumptions.
Today, we call such
bold ladies tomboys. Not for the obvious reason that they cross dress (because
they might not) but mainly because they possess a boldness common to the male
gender. For most guys it may seem that she has just lowered her value and
automatically she's considered an easy target. I would too and with good reason
at the risk of not being different from other guys out there. Besides am not
afraid of being a regular guy especially when i say that she's welcome to
lala's turf (evil grin).
For me, the female
approach takes the mystery or the excitement of a 'chase and conquer' out the
whole situation could be without challenge. Boring. You know how they say you
don't appreciate what you get for cheap, i can't think of a better situation
where such seemingly sagacious phrase applies perfectly. Its like hoping to
catch a romantic movie with someone special only for the movie to be totally
void of sex. How romantic. Rather, how disappointing.
Its with
bold interest that we guys take pleasure in discussing our conquest. Most call
it kiss and tell while i, personally, call it playing catch-up. The simple
picture is a bunch of guys, having sips, in a serene environment with lots of
pretty distractions. Of course we could talk about politics, the economy,
business etc but the obvious fact remains that when we have discussions about
women even the dumbest guys have a few words to share thus making it a very
interesting topic. A lady would perceive guys playing "catch-up" as
being stupid and intentional. Rationally, i can't say playing such a game is
wise but i definitely think its natural. Sue me.
yes o. guys update n females gossip. wisely separated.
ReplyDeleteI agree.Like the terms:update & gossip.
Deletecant slp so am reading ur blogs over n over again. wsh i cld meet wt u in person. interesting stuff. keep it up baus
ReplyDeleteQuit dis distractions n discuss ur true feelings for xoxo. Common.
ReplyDeleteWith all due respect,I have a pice of advice for you.. "Never u trust a girl who keeps her eyes open while u kiss her".
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comment in my blog.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
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